Tantric Tips
By Francesca Gentille 2/14/06
I'm sooooo happy :-) that I just want to SHARE THE JOY with great OFFERS and TANTRIC TIPS - BELOW! ! !
Over the Holy Days, my beloved (John Mariotti) and I formally committed to one another to engage to be married. This is both the culmination of years of working to bring Love, Ease, Sacred Sexuality, Compassion, Clear Communication and Sacred Relationship into our life. AND it is the beginning of a NEW JOURNEY into more Sacred Loving. There is always more!
As the Ancient Alchemists, Magicians, Metaphysicians, Saints, Sacred Lovers and Shamans say:
AS ABOVE - SO BELOW and AS WITHIN - SO WITHOUT
Over the past 25 years we have gathered the teaching gems from many traditions:
Psychology - Communication - Mediation - Health Education - Sex Education - Sacred Sexuality - American Tantra - Buddhist Tantra - Middle Eastern Temple - Christian Mysticism - Native European Shamanism - Non Violent Communication - Taoist Ejaculation Control - Chi Kung - Sacred Sensual Dance - Cross Cultural Spirituality and more.
I'd love to help you create MORE LOVE in your Living Room, Boudoir, Board Room or anywhere you long for fuller, richer, more joyful, more easeful, more passionate, more compassionate love.
I'm offering YOU a SPRING COACHING SALE (perfect for Valentine's) AND a FREE WORKSHOP in the convenience of YOUR LIVING ROOM AND the following TANTRIC TIPS for a SACRED VALENTINES.
The Spiritual Path of Tantra is the ART of coming to a inner state of love, compassion, and acceptance for ALL. It empowers true joy. It releases suffering. In engenders bliss. Simple in essence. Supported by ongoing practice.
I write the following in the First Person - as in "I did this." I invite you to "try on" for yourself how it might feel to hold these perspectives in your heart and in your relationship practice (whether or not you have a partner.) They can also be used as empowering affirmations.
ON MY SACRED LOVER:
I am my first Sacred Lover. As I learn how to pleasure my body from head to toe I feel self-love. As I facilitate my healing of body, mind and spirit, I feel self-trust. As I encourage myself to know and express my deepest creative, I feel passion. The more I become a fulfilling, caring, considerate, compassionate, erotic Sacred Lover with myself, the more Sacred Love is drawn into my life and genitals.
ON GIVING:
To give is to receive. When I give to my beloved with a sense of love and appreciation of how precious they are, how short the time we have in this life together, I receive joy and pleasure before, during and after the giving. This is especially true if I am giving a naked, oil slicked, full body-to-body massage in the boudoir.
ON HAPPINESS:
The Goddess says - If that which you seek you find not within yourself, you will never find it without. When I am my first and most precious lover/beloved, I radiate a happiness that is irresistible. I plant the seeds of happiness all around me and they grow up to be a beautiful garden of sweetness that nourishes me too.
ON GENEROUSITY:
When I look for the generousity in my beloveds actions, reactions and behaviors, I receive more and more. (When I look for the lack, I get more and more of what I don't want.) Each day I verbally appreciate the many ways my beloved is generous. That can be in communication, in not communicating, in working so hard, in bringing more ease, in giving me opportunities for growth, in giving me opportunities to love, etc. There is always something to appreciate.
ON EROTICISM:
10 years ago my life CHANGED on one question - What if I WAS ACCOUNTABLE for BEING the love, the passion, the romance and the deliciousness in the relationship? When I focus on BEING the sacred container, the sacred well, the sacred tree, the force of Eros, the life giving force IN ME. . . WOW. . . I have so much JUICE to bring to the relationship. I have so much vavoom to bring to me. It's enticingly inspiring.
ON COMMUNICATION:
Delicious, sacred, empowering communication benefits by two great communicators but only requires one. I don't need to agree with my beloved to have a great relationship. I do need to empathize, have compassion and understand what is beneath what they are saying and doing. When I attribute the "best possible" motives to them (even if I don't agree with their actions, words or choices) I nourish deep love between us.
ON TRUE LOVE:
TRUE SACRED LOVE is filled with ease and grace. Easeful Loving takes daily effort and maintenance. Real love is a spiritual practice. It takes ongoing training and practice. I wouldn't expect to stay abreast of being the best doctor, athelete, computer programmer etc without staying attuned to the latest breakthroughs in my field. The ART OF LOVE is an amazing field to become an expert in. It is worth my study.
ON REAL PASSION:
I used to think that REAL passion was animalistic, spontaneous and HAD to be fulfilled in the moment. Now, I know that type of passion is programmed into my Reptilian Brain Stem to produce F**king behavior to make and have babies. It doesn't tell me if I will like the person, share values, enjoy them over time, or trust them. Since I am the EROTIC FORCE ITSELF, I can BRING PASSION whenever, and where ever I choose. YUM!
ON BEING HEALTHY:
We are made flesh to expand our capacity for love. First we receive challenges, sufferings, and wounds. In growing and healing through these wounds we learn compassion, forgiveness and deep true love. We are all perfectly imperfect. All healing. We can contribute and collaborate with one another's healing. We are accountable for our own. I am perfectly imperfect. Just right. Growing. Healing. I am accountable for my own healing.
ON FEELINGS & NEEDS:
Feelings and needs are universal and sacred. They connect us to one another in beautiful ways. When we suppress our feelings and needs we overgive and become resentful. When we honor our feelings and needs and those of others we come into balance. When we express our feelings and needs in balanced clear ways, we connect intimately with those we care about most. I honor my feelings and needs. I express my feelings and needs in balanced, appropriate ways. I compassionately connect with the feelings and needs of my beloved.
ON LIMITS & BOUNDARIES:
I used to think that if I gave enough others would love me enough. NOW I know that limits and boundaries are sacred. Mine as well as others. When I am centered, I can appreciate me and others. When I listen for my limits, I can sense the limits of others. When I uphold my boundaries I respect myself and others.
Would you like a FREE WORKSHOP?
Topics include:
- Tantric Flirting & Dating - Renew the joy of dating & flirting!
- Beginners & Baby Steppers Intro To Tantric Loving
- Sexual Healing for Couples
- Sexual Salvation Practices for Couples
- Revitalizing Sensuality and Passion for Women
- Evoking the Sacred Lover in Men for Women
- Evoking the Sex Goddess in Women for Men
- Dancing Into Intimacy, Sensuality and Connection for Couples
- Lifelong Romance & Passion for Couples
- Naked Compassion: Deep Intimacy, Empathy, Appreciation, Forgiveness & Compassion for Couples
- Becoming the Priestess & Mage of Love for Couples
Love always,
Francesca |